Have you ever thought about how you perceive relationships? If you are with someone who really fills you? If you are compatible? In this article, I will teach you some basic notions of the key elements of your home board so that you do better in love.

If you still don’t know what your house board is or if you don’t have it at your fingertips, you can always calculate it for free on our website, I leave it here:

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Once this has said, we are going to focus in particular on 3 key points: the moon, the Venus and the house 7, each of these points launches a very precious vision of what love implies for us.

Thereafter, we will analyze the aspects and interplanetary relations which affect a comparison of the letters.

The moon

The Moon is the planet that symbolizes the way you treat your emotions, how you are looking for security and the way you give and receive affection. His regent, as you surely know, is cancer, which is a planet closely linked to the house and the family; To what we are looking for when we want to form a lasting union and make it our family.

Now, as the moon shows us where we are looking for security, this can also show you in which areas you can have emotional deficiencies or insecurity; If you have not properly treated these aspects in your life, they can lead there, for example, you are looking for a person who offers you this security from which you miss.

But finding someone like that does not imply that he makes you happy, simply that he will cover one of the most fundamental needs of life as Maslow offers in his pyramid, that is to say.

Ideally, once you love yourself, I start to love others, to look for this person who makes you really happy and is compatible with you, and this is where Venus comes into play, as we will see later.

But, taking with the moon, then I leave what the moon can involve in each sign and the areas in which you can search for this emotional security according to the sign.

Before visualizing the painting where I think, I explain what meaning I apply to each column:

Emotional need ➡️ Describe what the person is looking to feel safe and emotionally balanced. This need varies according to the lunar sign and determines which aspects of a relationship are the priority for the individual.

Emotional expression ➡️ Explain how the person manifests his emotions and their affections for others. This includes the style of emotional communication, the way he demonstrates the affection and the way he reacts in emotional situations.

Challenge ➡️ indicates emotional difficulties or problematic models that may occur due to the influence of the lunar sign. These challenges can affect stability in relationships and how the person manages their feelings.

			Impatience and difficulty getting involved emotionally.
	Safety and stability of materials.		Resistance to change and excessive attachment.
	Mental stimulation and communication.		Superficiality and difficulty for a deep emotional commitment.
	Protection and emotional connection.		Hypersensitivity and excessive attachment to the family.
			Need constant attention and pride.
			Excessive criticism and difficulty relaxing emotionally.
		Charming and conciliatory.	Dependence on the approval of others and avoidance of conflicts.
	Intensity and depth.	Passionate and transformer.	Jealousy, control and difficulty trusting.
			Uncomforts and tendency to flee emotional commitment.
		Reserved and committed.	Emotional coldness and difficulty express vulnerability.
	Independence and originality.	Intellectual and detached.	Difficulty connecting emotionally and tendency to emotional distance.
	Idealism and spiritual connection.		Tendency to escape and emotional dependence.

Obviously, this is a general approach because in a single article, we cannot cover everything that can lead to a detailed analysis – both from the moon and the rest of the planets – but if you want to deepen more in this regard, our new special love program can help you better understand you because it offers detailed relationships on your relationship with love.

You can see from the following link an example of interpretation, where you will see in detail the analysis made of the Moon (as well as the rest of the elements):

Interpretation of individual love

Venus

On the other hand, we have Venus, which is the planet of love, beauty and harmony, and its astrological position gives us information on the way we love and what we appreciate in relationships.

In general, it represents our desire for connection, affection and balance. In addition, Venus also governs aesthetics and physical attraction, the key elements of romantic relationships.

Knowing which position Venus can help you to discern what kind of love you are looking for. As with the moon, I will leave you here some basic notions on Venus in each sign.

It should be noted that, of course, in the analysis of a native graphic, many other variants come into play and this must also be taken into account, among other things, the aspects that the different planets carry out.

	Passionate, direct and intense.	Safe and energetic people who represent a challenge.	Competitiveness and need to maintain independence.
		Reliable and attractive people and with a feeling of stability.	Routine and resistance to new experiences together.
	Curious, fun and communicative.	Intelligent, conversational and versatile people.	Difficulty deepening the emotional link.
	Protector, emotional and devotee.	Affectionate, home and sensitive people.	Emotional dependence and mood fluctuations.
	Romantic, generous and passionate.	Safe, expressive and admiring people.	Need constant recognition and possible jealousy.
	Practical, attentive and detailed.	Ordered, intelligent and services.	Excessive criticism and difficulty accepting imperfections.
	Beautiful, harmonious and sociable.	Elegant, balanced and diplomatic people.	Excessive indecision and complacency to avoid conflicts.
	Intense, passionate and transformer.	Mysterious, magnetic and emotional people.	Jealousy and tendency to control the relationship.
	Adventurer, free and enthusiastic.	Spontaneous, optimistic and lovers of freedom.	Need individual space and fear of commitment.
	Responsible, traditional and stable.	Ambitious, mature and vision of the future.	Rigidity and difficulty showing vulnerability.
	Original, free and unconventional.	Unique, independent and innovative ideas.	Need freedom and emotional distance.
	Romantic, dreamer and compassionate.	Sensitive, spiritual and empathetic people.	Idealization of the couple and possible emotional dependence.

House VII

House VII represents the type of couple we are looking for and the way we interact in a relationship. This is why it is also important to know what it involves having planets located in Casa VII.

Sun at home VII

Relations can be a fundamental pillar in your life. There is a strong need to find a couple that strengthens your identity and gives you recognition. There may be a tendency to attract people with a strong or dominant character. It is a favorable aspect for marriage and social life, but it is essential to avoid depending on the couple too much to define their own identity.

Luna at home VII

You are looking for emotional security in the couple and relationships. You tend to attract sensitive maternal couples or with a strong emotional charge. Humor changes can affect relationship stability and you may have to learn to balance your emotions without completely depending on your partner. Sometimes there can be a tendency to establish relationships according to the need for protection.

Mercury at home VII

Relations are based on communication and intellectual exchange. A couple is sought after with whom you can talk about everything, who contributes to ideas and mental stimulus. There may be some indecision in commitment or a tendency to analyze relationships too much. It also promotes negotiation and diplomacy in the field of the couple and agreements.

Venus at home VII

This position is very favorable to love and marriage. You can search for a couple of harmonious, balanced and aesthetic meaning. You tend to avoid conflicts and you can make excess concessions to maintain peace. You attract pleasant relationships, but it is important to avoid depending on the couple’s approval or idealizing love too much.

March at home VII

The relationships are dynamic and intense, but they can be marked by conflicts and competition. You can be attracted to pairs with a strong, independent and energetic character. There can be a tendency to discussions or relations with a strong charge of passion and confrontation. You should learn to manage impulsiveness in the life of a couple.

Jupiter at home VII

Relations bring growth and expansion. Optimistic and generous couples are sought after and with a wide vision of life. There may be luck in marriage or associations, and you can benefit from relationships in many ways. However, we must avoid the tendency to idealize the couple too much or to enter into relationships according to excesses.

Saturn at home VII

Relations are serious and can involve long -term commitments with important responsibilities. There may be a fear of commitment or delays to find a stable couple. In some cases, the couple may be larger or represent a figure of authority. Effort and maturity are necessary to overcome evidence in love, but relationships generally become very solid over time.

Uranus at home VII

Relations tend to be unusual, unexpected or unconventional. A couple is sought after that respects independence and personal freedom. There may be unexpected ruptures or the tendency to avoid traditional commitment. You surely need a partner that gives you mental stimulation and a space to develop yourself individually.

Neptune at home VII

Idealization of love and the tendency to see the couple through a dream filter. Spiritual and deep ties are sought, but there is also the risk of deception, disappointments or confused relationships. There may be a tendency to sacrifice too much in relationships or attract evasive couples. It is essential to work on clarity and emotional limits.

Pluto at home VII

The relationships are intense, transformative and are several times with deep challenges. There can be a dynamic of power, jealousy or control inside the torque. Deep and passionate connections are sought, but it is important to avoid manipulation or power struggles. Relations can mark radical changes in your life.

The ascendant and the descendant

On the other hand, the ascendant and the descendant also play a fundamental role. By understanding our ascendant, we can see more clearly what type of couple we could attract and how we tend to act in the early stages of a relationship.

When exploring our descent, we can learn to balance our own needs with those of our partner, find common land that promote a harmonious relationship.

But analyzing here all the possible combinations would exceed the duration of an article, more resembling a test. This is why if you are interested in this subject and want to learn to meet better, you can do it thanks to the new function that we offer in our special love program:

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Beyond Venus, the Moon and the House VII: how astrology influences relations

So far, we have explored how the moon, Venus and House VII reflect our way of loving, our emotional needs and the type of couple we are looking for. However, the astrology of relationships goes much further. Not only does this influence the way we perceive love, but also in the way we interact with others, how we communicate and how we manage the conflicts of coexistence.

Then, we explore how certain planetary aspects and combinations can define the dynamics between two people and make a difference between a harmonious relationship and a lot of challenges.

Sol / Luna: The Archetypal Union in Relations

The link between the sun and the moon between two native letters is one of the most powerful in synastria. Carl Jung studied the importance of this link and found that many of the most efficient weddings presented a Conjunction between the sun and the moon. This union represents the perfect mixture between solar principles (identity, goal) and the lunar (emotions, emotional security).

When the sun and the moon are there Conjunction, trigone or sextile Between two people, the relationship has a basic mutual understanding and a natural tendency to complement each other. However, if there are tense aspects such as quadrature or opposition, conflicts between ego and emotional need can occur, which can generate tensions of coexistence.

The moon, in particular, plays a fundamental role in any relationship, because as we have commented on, it represents Emotional needs and comfort / safety area. If the couple does not meet these needs, the relationship can become exhausting and emotional malnutrition.

The tense aspects of the moon can make a person feel that their emotional stability is constantly threatened, which, in the long term, can exhaust the relationship.

Sexual compatibility and harmony in the relationship

As a relationship progresses, the dynamics of couples evolve beyond the initial attraction. This is where the combinations between Venus, Mars, the Moon and SaturnThis can make the difference between a harmonious relationship and a plague of tensions.

• Venus / March: The combination of these two planets indicates physical attraction and sexual chemistry. If they are in harmony (Trigone or Sextile), the attraction remains alive over time. If there is a square, there can be a desire, but with a tendency to frustration or rhythm conflicts in the relationship.
• Luna / Mars: One of the most favorable aspects for sexual compatibility. The moon represents the emotional response, while Mars is desire, therefore a good link between these two planets generates a strong chemistry and an instinctive connection.
• Mars in quadrature with Mars: One of the most difficult aspects of Sinastry. It can generate competition, aggressiveness and constant confrontations, which carry the relationship with time.

Not all stretched connections are negative. Sometimes even a square can be positive if the torque learns to manage tension in a productive way. However, if the aspects between these planets do not connect at all, the relationship is likely to lose intensity over time.

Mercury: the key to communication in the couple

Communication is the basis of any lasting relationship. Mercury, the planet of mind and expression, plays a key role in the compatibility of couples. Without a fluid link between the Mesters of the two people, difficulties can occur to understand each other and express themselves clearly.

• Mercury / Mercury: Indicates how two people treat the information and communicate. If they are in harmony, the couple will have fluid conversations and will be easily understood. If they are in quadrature or opposition, different “languages” can speak and frustrate for constant misunderstandings.
• Mercury / Sol: Indicates if the couple can share ideas and if one feels intellectually stimulated by the other.
• Mercury / Luna: An important link for emotional compatibility, because it allows emotions to express themselves clearly.
• Mercury / Saturn: Key aspect of master-student relationships, where the person with Saturn can offer a structure and discipline to the person with Mercury.

In short, if a couple cannot communicate, it will be difficult to maintain the long -term relationship, regardless of attraction or chemistry in other areas.

Transpersonal planets and generational differences

Beyond personal dynamics, transpersonal planets (Uranus, Neptune and Pluto) They play an important role in Sinastry, especially in the event of a generational difference between two people.

For example, generation with Pluto in cancer (which has experienced its transit for this sign for almost 30 years) tends to seek safety and control almost at all costs. On the other hand, a person with Balance Pluto It values ​​equality and justice in relationships, which can generate ideological clashes in its way of attacking love and commitment.

Currently, there are six generations of Pluto Living in the world (Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Pound, Scorpion, Sagittarius and Caprricorn), which makes the differences in the reality of perception is more and more obvious. These differences can generate challenges in intergenerational relationships or in the way each couple sees the world and makes decisions.

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